How can I help my child to succeed in school?
What parents can do to succeed their kids in school
An important area of education for children is the
training they receive from their families. The most important aspect of this
training is related to parents (especially children)'s behavior with children
(s). The following are some basic points in this regard
Learning religious and academic
· Being a Muslim our Children should be introduced
to the basic teachings of religion from an early age. Provide awareness of the
Qur'anic teaching and the lawful and lawful orders. Be accustomed to fasting
when you reach the age of seven, and when you reach the age of fasting.
Children need to fear God from the very beginning and be accountable for all
actions (actions) before them, and they must realize that Allah is watching
over them all the time.
Moral training
· How can I help my child to succeed in school to Strive
to make children accustomed to high morals from an early age, as childhood
habits mature as they grow older, it is important that from childhood they
should be taught the truth, honesty, bravery, kindness, respect of elders,
neighbors. Better behavior, adherence to the rights of friends and the help of
deserving people, such as having high moral qualities, then protecting them
from bad morals such as lying, stealing, abusing gluttony and misbehavior. To
be accustomed to and to keep away from luxuries.
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Physical training
·
Parents should take care of their children's
physical development, diet and rest and make them addicted to exercise.it is a good
skills after school to refresh the child to be able to succeed in school in
every activities Efforts should be made to meet the physical ailments and
legitimate needs.
Four basics that parents need to avoid:
Discretion in punishment
· Absolutely no punishment and too much punishment
is wrong. The practice of love and kindness towards children is the Sunnah of
the Holy Prophet and it is also a place of repression. Both of these attitudes
must moderate.
Unconscious pampering
· To satisfy every child's desire, unnecessary
pampering makes them stubborn and self-centered. This requires moderation.
Prioritizing children over one another: Giving
two children or boys and girls one priority in the same household is
un-Islamic, leading to many psychiatric disorders.
Spend Quality Time with Children’s
· It is very important as a parents Spend as much
time with your family as possible, especially with children. Organize your
financial struggles and other engagements in such a way that you must spend
some time with your family. The education and training of children is the
responsibility of both parents and parents; it is a reasonable and unreasonable
way to put all the burden of training on the mother. Interaction with children
in madrassas, acquaintance with friends, etc. requires that parents spend some
time with them daily.
Engagements in different skills
· TV and computer books cannot be changed. Good
books and magazines play an extraordinary role in the personality of children,
should make it a habit to study in their children. Give parents good books and
magazines and create a personal library for them, monitor their curriculum
studies and other books. Encourage your children to buy books by spending money
out of their pocket
Parents set high goal To Achieve To Their
Kids
· Parents generally set high expectations for
their children, but when they do not meet this standard, parents become
frustrated and annoyed with their children. In this way both parents and
children become vulnerable and irritable. This is inappropriate behavior.
Children should be encouraged and rewarded with the reward they deserve.
Children's expectations, their abilities, interests and weaknesses should also
be taken into consideration when dealing with expectations. Parents should
refrain from imposing their wishes on their children Support kids for success.
Unsuccessful Events
· Why parents forget that child can’t be win in
every challenge or field we need to support our child how can we/parents to
succeed in school and
· Failure
must be trained to make it a success. Everyone faces some kind of crisis in
life, so it is important to have children's minds in order to cope with the
unknown. They should be trained to deal with problems rather than escape them.
Commitment, dedication and hard work are the conditions for success. In the
event of difficulties, counseling with children also helps in their training
and their self-esteem.
Education and training
· Parents should work slowly in their education
and training, not desperate for improvement. It is important to introduce the
children to the character of the Holy Prophet and to believe in the followings
of the Prophet (peace be upon him), as well as bring the lives of the self to
the children as a torch. By scheduling study time at home, parents can set the
foundation for children's development by working under the supervision of an
educational institution.
Per iodize and value parents, too, and help
children get used to the time. A waste of time is irreparable loss. Making the
best use of this valuable asset is the key to success. Spending on education
and training is a future investment. Given the extremely expensive educational
costs of the current era, it is appropriate for each family to spend a fixed
portion of their monthly income on education and training of their
children. If the children are in small groups, the amount left over can be used
in the future.
Nabeel Ayubi
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